Someone has truly said - "You cannot give happiness to others if you are not happy yourself." So firstly, make arrangements make yourself happy without feeling guilty! Some of us are so much used to living for others; which is great in its place but the resultant effect years or decades after thereof is that we start finding justifications when we want to do something just because we enjoy doing or may be because we simply want to do it. That 'something' could be something silly as well as great!
I want to tell all those kind and sensitive people out there - Experience joy and love! Stop blaming others. Live because you want to live. It's a long time since you thought of something all by yourself just for yourself in which no other person is involved. All these years you were going against nature. You wanted to give everything by being physically, mentally and emotionally available. In the process you did lots of things which were not your arena. You almost forgot all those things which were under your scheme of things. In such circumstances, the whole struggle becomes a huge waste of one's energy. Here, I am referring to mental energy and a whole lot of it! You are tremendously stressed out when you keep pursuing activities you do not personally enjoy.
So, choose your path. There is so much to be experienced. Don't forget to thank God for all those experiences which have moulded you to be a better person. They have helped you to discover yourself!
No comments:
Post a Comment